Doula with joy by Demi Carr
Birth & Postpartum Doula Services | Gentle Sleep Consulting | Proudly Serving NYC
In Person and Virtual Appointments Available
Birth Doula
As your birth doula, my goal is to support you towards the childbirth you wish to have. My primary aim is to assist you in achieving a birthing experience that is not only memorable but also deeply empowering. Drawing on a blend of my professional expertise grounded in evidence-based practices and the insights gained from my personal experiences, I am committed to offering unwavering support throughout the entire process—before, during, and after birth.
Let’s Bring Joy into the World Together.
Let’s bring your little one into the world with joy.
A birth doula is a trained and experienced professional who provides continuous physical, emotional, and informational support to individuals and couples before, during, and after childbirth. The role of a birth doula is to assist and empower the birthing person, ensuring they have a positive and satisfying birth experience.
It's important to note that a birth doula does not provide medical care or perform clinical tasks. Instead, our focus is on emotional support, education, and advocacy to enhance the overall birthing experience for the individual or couple. The presence of a birth doula can contribute to a sense of empowerment and satisfaction during this significant life event.
Here are some of the areas of support I offer…
What Does A Doula Do?
Antenatal Empowerment
Prior to labor, I will work with you ensuring you are well-informed, confident, and ready for the transformative experience of childbirth. I will help educate you and your partner, if applicable, about the various stages of labor, medical procedures, and birthing options. Together, we can also work together to create a birth plan with options if needed, outlining preferences for labor and delivery.
Holistic Labor Support
During labor, I am your steadfast companion, employing a holistic approach to support—incorporating comfort measures, encouragement, and advocacy to create a birthing environment aligned with your desires. I am there to offer continuous emotional reassurance and encouragement to both you and your partner while providing a calming presence during labor and delivery, helping to reduce anxiety and stress.
Comfort Techniques
Tailoring our approach to your preferences, I bring forth a repertoire of personalized comfort techniques and relaxation methods, ensuring a soothing and empowering birthing atmosphere. We may utilize comfort measures, such as massage, positioning suggestions, and breathing techniques, to help manage pain and discomfort during labor and I will help encourage movement and different birthing positions to facilitate a smoother labor process.
Effective Advocacy
Navigating the complexities of childbirth can be intricate. As your advocate, I facilitate clear communication with healthcare providers, ensuring your birth plan is honored but giving you clarifying information in the event it needs to change. Whether you're planning for a natural birth, considering pain management options, or facing unexpected decisions, I am committed to advocating with and for you.
My Birth Package
So, what does a birth package with Birth With Joy entail? My Birth Package is designed to accompany you as little or as much as you want on the transformative journey of bringing new life into the world.
Complimentary Meet and Greet
Our journey together begins with a complimentary meet and greet, providing us the opportunity to connect, discuss your expectations, and ensure that our partnership aligns seamlessly with your vision for childbirth support. This initial meeting sets the stage for a collaborative and personalized experience
Prenatal Visit
In preparation for the big day, our package includes a dedicated prenatal visit. During this session, we delve into your birth plan, preferences, and any concerns you may have. This visit is a crucial step in building trust and understanding, ensuring that I am fully equipped to provide the tailored support you need during labor and delivery.
Labor & Birth Support
As your dedicated birth doula, I stand by your side throughout the entire labor and birthing process. Offering continuous emotional support, comfort measures, and advocacy, my goal is to create a positive and empowering birthing experience. Whether you choose a hospital, home, or birthing center setting, I am here to ensure your preferences are honored, and you feel supported every step of the way.
Immediate Postpartum Support after Birth
The support doesn't end with the arrival of your little one. Immediately after birth, I provide compassionate and practical assistance. From initial breastfeeding guidance to emotional support, my focus is on fostering a smooth transition into the early postpartum period, ensuring you and your baby receive the care you need.
Postpartum Visit
Completing the Birth Package is one postpartum visit (you are also free to add on more Postpartum support), where we reflect on the birthing experience, address any questions or concerns, and provide additional support as needed. This visit is an essential part of our commitment to your overall well-being, offering guidance as you navigate the joys and challenges of the early postpartum weeks.
Support at Every Stage
At every stage of your birthing journey, my Birth Support Package
is designed to provide unwavering assistance, tailored to your unique needs. Let's embark on this experience together.

Want to Work Together But You Are Out of My Area?
I offer virtual support!
Doula with Joy can join you in the comfort of your own space anywhere in the world! Our virtual journey begins the same as an in-person package- with a complimentary meet and greet, followed by a prenatal consultation and continuous support during labor and birth through video communication. Even in the digital space, our commitment extends to immediate postpartum assistance and a virtual postpartum debriefing session. Experience the joy of childbirth with personalized, virtual support tailored to your unique needs.